4th Muharram 1447H |
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| | | | قُل لِّلْمُؤْمِنِينَ يَغُضُّوا۟ مِنْ أَبْصَـٰرِهِمْ وَيَحْفَظُوا۟ فُرُوجَهُمْ ۚ ذَٰلِكَ أَزْكَىٰ لَهُمْ ۗ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ خَبِيرٌۢ بِمَا يَصْنَعُونَ | وَقُل لِّلْمُؤْمِنَـٰتِ يَغْضُضْنَ مِنْ أَبْصَـٰرِهِنَّ وَيَحْفَظْنَ فُرُوجَهُن | "O Prophet!˺ Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and guard their chastity. That is purer for them. Surely Allah is All-Aware of what they do. And tell the believing women to lower their gaze and guard their chastity…" | The Light (24:30-31) |
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Assalamu'alaikum, |
The summer sun is blazing, and with it comes a challenge you probably weren't expecting to read in a productivity newsletter. |
Everywhere you turn—whether it's a quick grocery run, a jog in the park, or even scrolling through social media—you're bombarded with images and people dressed in revealing clothes that pull your gaze in directions your heart knows aren't beneficial. |
The revealing nature of summer fashion & the immodesty we see all around us hijacks our heart and brain and makes it hard for us to focus, spiritually and mentally. |
If you've been struggling to focus at work, have meaningful connections with people, or feeling distant from Allah SWT, it's time to check your spiritual heart and ask yourself if you've opened the floodgates of your eyes to soak in everything it sees without a filter. |
This isn't about making you feel bad; it's about recognizing our fitrah (natural disposition), and how if we leave our nafs unchecked, it can trap our minds and hearts in ways we didn't expect. |
Our Creator knows us and gave us the perfect prescription to help protect our hearts and minds from overtaxing ourselves with impure imagery when He commanded us to lower our gaze. |
The True Cost of a "Harmless" Glance |
Someone might argue: "What's the big deal? It's just a look. Where's the harm?" |
Here's what that momentary pleasure actually costs you: |
1. Your Creative Edge Disappears
The dopamine hit from an inappropriate look is stealing from your ability to find satisfaction in meaningful work. Your brain becomes so overstimulated that writing, problem-solving, or deep thinking feels boring by comparison. |
2. Your Focus Becomes Fragmented
Every inappropriate glance is like a browser tab that stays open in your mind. You think you've moved on, but part of your heart and mental processing power is still stuck on what you saw hours ago and those images will haunt you in your prayers, in your marriage, and when you least expect them. |
3. Your Spiritual Connection Weakens
Allah wants our hearts to be purely dedicated to Him. When our hearts are filled with imagery from inappropriate looks we saw in real life or on our phones, our prayer feels mechanical. Quran recitation lacks sweetness. That close connection with Allah that used to bring you peace? It feels distant and clouded. |
The "pleasure" of looking lasts seconds but the productivity cost lasts hours (if not days)—and this doesn't count the spiritual/akhirah cost of indulging ourselves in such looks. |
Your Practical Summer Survival Guide |
Step 1: Let it bother you
One of the worst spiritual feelings is when you feel desensitized to haram. When you feel it's "normal" to see someone half-naked. It needs to bother you, you should feel uncomfortable. This is the least part of faith: to see something wrong and your heart to feel it's wrong. |
Step 2: The Physical Redirect
Yes, it might feel awkward at first, but literally turning your head away works. When you're out for your morning walk/run and you're about to approach someone not dressed appropriately, look down or to the side. It'll be awkward at first, but it'll become second nature over time. |
Step 3: Protect your environment
If you're able to work from home during the summer, or change your environment in one shape or form so that you don't expose yourself to inappropriate fashion - do so. This includes your digital environment and yes, deleting social media apps from your phone for the sake of your spiritual heart. |
Step 4: Reset your spiritual heart every prayer
The beauty of our deen is that we have the 5 daily prayers as ways to reset yourself and reset your heart. So use the opportunity of the 5 daily prayers to seek Allah's forgiveness for what your eyes saw accidentally or intentionally. This constant cleaning of your heart will help bring that light to your heart insha'Allah. |
"But It's Impossible to Look Away" |
I understand. Our nafs will sometimes get the better of us. We'll lose focus. We'll look when we shouldn't. We'll feel frustrated with ourselves, guilty even. |
This is where Shaytaan plays his trick. He whispers: "You failed again. You're hopeless. Why even try?" |
But listen carefully: you can lose a battle without losing the war for your soul. |
The moment you despair of Allah's mercy is the moment you truly lose. Every sincere attempt to lower your gaze—even if it only lasts five minutes before you slip up—is a victory recorded with Allah. |
The struggle itself is worship. This is jihad. |
When you fall, get up. Seek forgiveness. Try again. The war isn't won by perfection; it's won by persistence. |
The BIG Productivity Prize for Lowering Your Gaze: Baseerah! |
Do you know when you're stuck with a problem for days... and then you get that "Eureka!" moment? Ever wondered where that came from? Even more important, do you wish you had more of these moments? |
Imam Ibn Al-Qayyim said: "So just as the servant restrained the light of his eye from falling upon the unlawful, Allah blesses the light of his sight and heart, thereby making him perceive what he would not have seen and understood had he not lowered his gaze." |
Imam Ibn Al-Qayyim is speaking about baseera, a special kind of insight that comes from spiritual clarity. |
When your mind isn't constantly hijacked by overstimulation, you start seeing solutions you missed before. Ideas flow more freely. Problems that seemed impossible suddenly have clear paths forward. |
Now that's a productivity hack! |
This Will Get Easier Over Time |
The beauty of lowering your gaze practice is that it gets easier. Just like any habit, the more you train yourself to redirect your gaze, the more automatic it becomes. Shaytaan will whisper that it's impossible, but Allah promises to make the path easy for those who are sincere. |
I'm no saint in this struggle. This is a reminder for me and for you that as the heat rises and the challenges increase, remember that lowering your gaze isn't just about avoiding sin, it's about optimizing your brain for the kind of deep focus and insight that leads to extraordinary productivity insha'Allah. |
Your heart and your mind are sacred trusts (amanah). Guard them well. |
Sincerely, |
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